Wednesday, 16 May 2012

Friday, 11 May 2012


                        Did you ever love someone who never knew?


Of course everyone loves their friends, but with me it's different.  I can't explain it, it's just...different. I saw her standing there pretending to be just friends, when all the time in the world could not pry  apart. She was never my girlfriend, but I miss her smiles, her advice,  kindness, the times i got scared of her due to some of my activities. I guess I fell in love with our friendship. Sometimes, when you imagine a perfect girl, you realize you've described a person you've known for ever .It was just you and me. Two friends. And then with a simple look, my hand fell into yours.
You think you know me well as a friend...You say you understand me...You claim you can read my mind, predict my moods, sense my feelings...So why don't you realize that I’m so in love with you?
Damnit! Can't you see!? Our feelings for each other is so different. You want to protect me and care for me and be there for me as only a friend can be. And I don’t want to be friends! I want you to hold me and love me, really love me, love me in ways only people who love each other can, people who can't live without each other can. And why??? Because I can’t live without you, because you are my first thought in the morning and my last thought before I go to bed. And because when I don't think about you my mind , my heart hurts, It hurts!!! And I can't live with that pain.- in the shadows7 (on bolt)
You contact with me almost every day and say hello. Every day you take time out to listen to me. You talk to me, smile at me, laugh with me, and have fun with me. Well I talk, smile and laugh too, but inside I'm hurting. Deep down it hurts to be with you because I love you and you are only a friend. It hurts to fall in love with a friend.

 You keep on hiding your feelings, avoiding it as much as possible, till you cry your heart out and express it randomly and from now on you have the fear of losing a friend.

Did you ever talk to your Good Friend  and then had to change the topic or look away, somehow had to hide the way you felt for them. Have you ever prayed the day would come you'd hear them say they felt it too. Did you ever love someone who never knew?

Monday, 13 February 2012

!!!V-Day!!!Funny side of it!!!


If you've landed here in search of a sweet sonnet or other classically romantic line to share with a loved on this Valentine's Day, you might not have come to the right place. But if you are here to really enjoy this day then jokes about the notoriously divisive holiday by some of our favorite comedians:

"Valentine's Day: the holiday that reminds you that if you don't have a special someone, you're alone."
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Lewis Black
"Oh here's an idea: let's make pictures of our internal organs and give them to other people we love on Valentine's Day. That's not weird at all." 
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Jimmy Fallon (as Robert Pattinson)
"February is a month of months, and there is one special day: Valentine's Day on the 14th. I know it's still a ways off, but I just can't wait. Janice(My Wife), if you're reading this, will you make me the happiest man in the world and get out of my apartment?" 
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Ed Helms
"It goes Christmas, New Year's Eve, Valentine's Day. Is that fair to anyone who's alone? These are all days you gotta be with someone. And if you didn't get around to killing yourself at Christmas or New Year's, boom! There's Valentine's Day. I think there should be one more after Valentine's Day just called, 'Who could love you?'" 
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Laura Kightlinger
"I have a dream, and a plan, to combine the commercial possibilities of Valentine's Day with the substance and meaning of black history month. I call it: Blackentine's Day." 

"The jewelry stores say, 'Tell your wife you love her with a diamond,' while wives tell you they love you with, 'Ok, but just because it's Valentine's Day.'" 
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George Lopez
"Happy Valentine's Day! And if this is news to you, my guess is you're probably alone. Valentine's Day is often times a, well, it's a manufactured day that really doesn't mean anything." 
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Jon Stewart
"Today is Valentine's Day. Or, as men like to call it, Extortion day." 
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Jay Leno
"Every year, girls are like, 'This is the year I get diamonds!' And guys are like, 'This is the year I get a blowjob!' Everybody's disappointed." 
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Aisha Tyler
It's better that you loved and lost than to have to do forty ruppes of laundry a week like me.

-Ujjwal


 

Thursday, 20 October 2011

Being Woman! Still Shameful.

This is my own analysis to present the story of most houses where violence is just a passing phenomenon. A woman’s life is about being born into a patriarchal society dominated by culture and ethics, growing up pleasing her parents and then getting married and bringing up her children to please her husband and her in-laws. Where growing up means compromising one’s own dreams to that of her parents’ and societies’ so-called manners, marriage is about adjusting. However not every women face such a life but most of them do.
The Status of women in India has been considerably better than before.Today women have adorned high offices including the persident, Speaker of loksabha, leader of opposition etc. But lots(larger one) are still best for nothing.
Lot of people doesn't agree me ok i will tell you a story a real one but without naming the individuals. She was born in some small town she was very bright student in her earlier school life and in college but after completing her bachelor's degree she was married. She trusted her parents and their decisions to marry the man of their choice. As the Girl with such an immense talent and innovations she felt that she would get job but the illogical terms put to her made her house wife. Her family(Father in law and Mother in law along with her sister in laws) abused her emotionally for every failure be it about a small water leak in the kitchen or unable to pay the electricity bill. And later that changes into physical harassment. That makes that talented Girl into one of the abusive and irritated person around and that affects her children also. 
This is not the story of a single Girl if you take round of your town you see number of these cases. I strongly believe women have no respect for women more than men. However not all; generalizing would not be right. There are women who treat their fellow sex in such a rowdy way, those men who witness such feels disgusted and sick and in my opinion they are the biggest idiots or the rowdy ass.
One should know if you want your development firstly start respecting and developing the women in your house, it doesn't limits to your house that helps in development of your country also.
Be it domestic or foreign, violence and abuses against women should be put to end . Even society treats women in a stereotyped way as if women were born to face such atrocities. If any women have any such problem in their life it is because of her own fault.
While writing all this i understood women who face such situations and harassment to itself have their own reasons but she itself is to blame for this. The people crowded around should think that they also are the humans and they also get into such situations.The future should learn from the mistakes and wrong doings of today to make sure they don’t the same life like their past.
This post is not only for the violence against women but also for those who witness such wrong doings. Gandhiji said " Those who face and see the violence as a mock predators are also culprit in same amount as to those who do this." So one should learn to make sure their future isn’t as regretting as they have witnessed.
Because ones Future entirely depends on their action and decision they takes.