I am Ashamed Indian

                      I am Ashamed Indian

I know this article might sound offensive to a huge number of you, but I don’t care. When I heared about the latest Delhi gang rape, I felt outraged and humiliated. Everywhere right from the news to social networking everyone is accusing Delhi government and police, lets take it straight our legal system is so delayed and derailed that by the time these rapist are punished the crime is long forgotten & the victim remains a victim lifelong . But is it actually government fault?? Just think!! I am sorry to say that I am ashamed Indian.  We are the civilization which challenges themselves to be the most socialized civilization among the world. We are the civilization who prays Goddesses  wants Laxmi to give us money, Saraswati to give us Knowledge, Durga to protect us…. , But how we are treating the real Laxmi, Saraswti and Durga of society.We are so mentally drained that we are treating them as article of pleasure. Is that pleasure so important that for our few minutes pleasure we are playing with their life??Are we dogs? I think dogs are better than us, they don’t harsh their counter part like this. After current shameful incident dogs are thanking God “Thank God we are Dogs”.

There are some arguments that why women used to travel at night they are not disciplined enough that’s why they have to suffer. I mean this is the most idiotic argument ever have been put. Let us suppose for one minute that this argument stands in this case then what about the other cases which occurs in daylight, now where does this argument stands??? What is this country that I live in? With no equality and quality of life differs from men to women?? Some of the arguments also says, one of the minister of country argumented that women should look up to what they wear. I mean who are you to tell what to wear or what not to?? Which argument will stands for that 6 year old who had been raped, she even don’t know what are the different clothes she should wear. Problem is very basic with increase in technology our mindset is degrading and narrowing day by day, we are treating women as a sex object. How can ones few minutes pleasure end life of others. Some of us might say that I am not like that I never had teased or outraged any girl but everyone of us(almost 95%) must be in the situation where a women have been misbehaved and we are treating such shameful act as fun or ignore that, we should remember one thing if she is someone's Daughter/Sister/Wife today, tomorrow might be ours turn. And I am sorry to say that I am ashamed Indian for that. It is said that education began at home, now it is high time where we should teach our male child to respect the dignity of women. If we still don’t give the proper attention on this then the time is nearer when our so called civilized and great society will fail and males of the society will be treated as bunch of rapists.

At the end I am really hopeful that we will take an oath to respect and to protect our females. My heart bleeds for that young lady and for every victim. They would be very happy if the world ends on 21-12-2012 because “Rape is only crime where victim has to suffer longer than the accused”.  

From My Heart!!: The Real life of an Idiot

From My Heart!!: The Real life of an Idiot

The Real life of an Idiot

                   Hope My Life turns to me again

10th grade:
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As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "friend”. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished
she was mine. But she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it.
After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and I handed them to her. She said “thanks” and shake hand with me. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

11th grade
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The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how she was feeling low for some of the mysterious reasons. She asked me to come over because she didn’t want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. She looked at me, said “thanks” and gave me sweet smile. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Farewell Day
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The day before farewell she was somehow angry of me "off course for the same mysterious reasons" . She told me we would go together just as “best friends”. But not now.  Everything was over, I was standing at her front door step! I stared at her as she ignored me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn’t think of me like that, and  I want to tell her, I want her to know that I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

The Best Day
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A day passed, then a week, then a month and then a year. Before I could blink, it was two years I talked her. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel image is in my heart. Then I got a call for me that was like "Phone from the God". I was like out of this world. We talked actually I talked I talked a lot and the process of phoning started again. She was in some college doing her Btech in some middle of the mountains. I saw her on facebook her charm had increased and in one word she was amazing.

The Day when we meet
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The  friendship was blooming and she said lets meet. I was kind of shy so I ignored number of times but at that day when se said you don't want to meet i can't ignored and i booked my ticket with the help of one friend.

The Day came I reached the place 5 hours earlier and each minute that passed was kind of a year the moments are anxious and then she called me where are you I was kind of nervous and told her wait there I am coming. We meet again she was with her friends but who cares I meet her again.

 

Shocked
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The journey of the Indian railways was giving me the feeling of  " UranKhatola". I would say that was the best journey i ever had done before. I was thanking God numerous of times but God has something else in his bucket might be God was jealous of my happiness after some hours while going through her phone(she don't know that) i found one sms (Special Message Sucked)  that says "Happy anniversary of our relationship". That was the shocker of the moment I was stunned I don't know what to say. I can't help me in doing anything.

One feeling that came across  my mind was" Lets Jump" from the train but i can't do that also it's not that I was afraid but my stimulus were not reacting and responding and for the first time I had the feeling of "Pairon ke niche se jammen khiskana" . I was shocked.  The Best Journey of my Life becomes shocker of it. Time passes by and we reached our destination her father was their to pick her she waved me and Left.

Hope My Life turn to me again
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After that we talked on phone but not on that topic and with passes of time our conversations comes down. I m here Life is going Good but who cares she is working in some MNC's have had her life much better than earlier we don't talk much now even on facebook when she see me online she turns to invisible, I don't know why.  I don't know what I am but I can't forget her, my friends tells me she don't deserve you leave her hate her but i've learned that one wouldn't  make oneself lame or cripple even if he don't run with those legs.

From My Heart!!: Did you ever love someone...

From My Heart!!:
                        Did you ever love someone...:                         Did you ever love someone who never knew? Of course everyone loves their friends, but with me it's differe...

                        Did you ever love someone who never knew?

Of course everyone loves their friends, but with me it's different.  I can't explain it, it's just...different. I saw her standing there pretending to be just friends, when all the time in the world could not pry  apart. She was never my girlfriend, but I miss her smiles, her advice,  kindness, the times i got scared of her due to some of my activities. I guess I fell in love with our friendship. Sometimes, when you imagine a perfect girl, you realize you've described a person you've known for ever .It was just you and me. Two friends. And then with a simple look, my hand fell into yours.

You think you know me well as a friend...You say you understand me...You claim you can read my mind, predict my moods, sense my feelings...So why don't you realize that I’m so in love with you?

Damnit! Can't you see!? Our feelings for each other is so different. You want to protect me and care for me and be there for me as only a friend can be. And I don’t want to be friends! I want you to hold me and love me, really love me, love me in ways only people who love each other can, people who can't live without each other can. And why??? Because I can’t live without you, because you are my first thought in the morning and my last thought before I go to bed. And because when I don't think about you my mind , my heart hurts, It hurts!!! And I can't live with that pain.- in the shadows7 (on bolt)

You contact with me almost every day and say hello. Every day you take time out to listen to me. You talk to me, smile at me, laugh with me, and have fun with me. Well I talk, smile and laugh too, but inside I'm hurting. Deep down it hurts to be with you because I love you and you are only a friend. It hurts to fall in love with a friend.

 You keep on hiding your feelings, avoiding it as much as possible, till you cry your heart out and express it randomly and from now on you have the fear of losing a friend.

Did you ever talk to your Good Friend  and then had to change the topic or look away, somehow had to hide the way you felt for them. Have you ever prayed the day would come you'd hear them say they felt it too. Did you ever love someone who never knew?

!!!V-Day!!!Funny side of it!!!

If you've landed here in search of a sweet sonnet or other classically romantic line to share with a loved on this Valentine's Day, you might not have come to the right place. But if you are here to really enjoy this day then jokes about the notoriously divisive holiday by some of our favorite comedians:

"Valentine's Day: the holiday that reminds you that if you don't have a special someone, you're alone."
-Lewis Black

"Oh here's an idea: let's make pictures of our internal organs and give them to other people we love on Valentine's Day. That's not weird at all." 
-Jimmy Fallon (as Robert Pattinson)

"February is a month of months, and there is one special day: Valentine's Day on the 14th. I know it's still a ways off, but I just can't wait. Janice(My Wife), if you're reading this, will you make me the happiest man in the world and get out of my apartment?" 
-Ed Helms

"It goes Christmas, New Year's Eve, Valentine's Day. Is that fair to anyone who's alone? These are all days you gotta be with someone. And if you didn't get around to killing yourself at Christmas or New Year's, boom! There's Valentine's Day. I think there should be one more after Valentine's Day just called, 'Who could love you?'" 
-Laura Kightlinger

"I have a dream, and a plan, to combine the commercial possibilities of Valentine's Day with the substance and meaning of black history month. I call it: Blackentine's Day." 

-Mo Rocca

"The jewelry stores say, 'Tell your wife you love her with a diamond,' while wives tell you they love you with, 'Ok, but just because it's Valentine's Day.'" 
-George Lopez

"Happy Valentine's Day! And if this is news to you, my guess is you're probably alone. Valentine's Day is often times a, well, it's a manufactured day that really doesn't mean anything." 
-Jon Stewart

"Today is Valentine's Day. Or, as men like to call it, Extortion day." 
-Jay Leno

"Every year, girls are like, 'This is the year I get diamonds!' And guys are like, 'This is the year I get a blowjob!' Everybody's disappointed." 
-Aisha Tyler

It's better that you loved and lost than to have to do forty ruppes of laundry a week like me.

-Ujjwal

 

Being Woman! Still Shameful.

This is my own analysis to present the story of most houses where violence is just a passing phenomenon. A woman’s life is about being born into a patriarchal society dominated by culture and ethics, growing up pleasing her parents and then getting married and bringing up her children to please her husband and her in-laws. Where growing up means compromising one’s own dreams to that of her parents’ and societies’ so-called manners, marriage is about adjusting. However not every women face such a life but most of them do.
The Status of women in India has been considerably better than before.Today women have adorned high offices including the persident, Speaker of loksabha, leader of opposition etc. But lots(larger one) are still best for nothing.
Lot of people doesn't agree me ok i will tell you a story a real one but without naming the individuals. She was born in some small town she was very bright student in her earlier school life and in college but after completing her bachelor's degree she was married. She trusted her parents and their decisions to marry the man of their choice. As the Girl with such an immense talent and innovations she felt that she would get job but the illogical terms put to her made her house wife. Her family(Father in law and Mother in law along with her sister in laws) abused her emotionally for every failure be it about a small water leak in the kitchen or unable to pay the electricity bill. And later that changes into physical harassment. That makes that talented Girl into one of the abusive and irritated person around and that affects her children also. 
This is not the story of a single Girl if you take round of your town you see number of these cases. I strongly believe women have no respect for women more than men. However not all; generalizing would not be right. There are women who treat their fellow sex in such a rowdy way, those men who witness such feels disgusted and sick and in my opinion they are the biggest idiots or the rowdy ass.
One should know if you want your development firstly start respecting and developing the women in your house, it doesn't limits to your house that helps in development of your country also.
Be it domestic or foreign, violence and abuses against women should be put to end . Even society treats women in a stereotyped way as if women were born to face such atrocities. If any women have any such problem in their life it is because of her own fault.
While writing all this i understood women who face such situations and harassment to itself have their own reasons but she itself is to blame for this. The people crowded around should think that they also are the humans and they also get into such situations.The future should learn from the mistakes and wrong doings of today to make sure they don’t the same life like their past.
This post is not only for the violence against women but also for those who witness such wrong doings. Gandhiji said " Those who face and see the violence as a mock predators are also culprit in same amount as to those who do this." So one should learn to make sure their future isn’t as regretting as they have witnessed.
Because ones Future entirely depends on their action and decision they takes.